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Dating feels harder than it should.
Build confidence, improve your dating profile and conversations, and learn how to pursue genuine compatibility.
It's time to raise the standard
Attract with confidence.
Connect with purpose.
Private, one-on-one dating and relationship coaching for men who want to understand the signals, communicate with confidence, and build connections that last.
Private 1-on-1 coachingPhone or ZoomNationwide
✧ For dating and committed relationships
◈ A practical, direct approach
◎ No awkward group sessions
Who it's for
Better relationships start with a better approach.
Whether you're newly single, tired of mixed signals, or already in a relationship, the goal is the same: become more intentional about how you show up.
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You keep repeating the same patterns.
Get clearer on your expectations, boundaries, partner selection, and the habits that may be holding you back.
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You want a stronger relationship.
Practice communicating your needs, navigating conflict, and building trust without losing your sense of self.
Private coaching
Real guidance. Clear next steps.
Choose the level of support that fits where you are. Sessions are conducted privately by phone or Zoom.
Single session
The Clarity Call
One focused coaching session to work through a specific dating or relationship challenge and leave with an action plan.
$99 / 60 minutes
Best for one specific question or challenge.
Purchase securely ↗Have questions? Book a free call ↗4-week coaching
The Dating Reset
Four weekly private sessions focused on dating confidence, communication, dating strategy, and healthier decision-making.
$349 / 4 weeks
Includes four private coaching sessions and action steps.
Purchase securely ↗Have questions? Book a free call ↗12-week coaching
The Standard
A deeper program for men who want to work on dating patterns, confidence, boundaries, and long-term relationship skills.
$999 / 12 weeks
Includes twelve weekly sessions and a personalized plan.
Purchase securely ↗Have questions? Book a free call ↗Secure checkout is handled by Stripe. Before purchasing, review our Client Agreement and Refund & Cancellation Policy. After payment, you will receive scheduling instructions by email. Payment does not replace a signed agreement.
A focused first step
Make your dating profile work for you.
Your photos, bio, and prompts tell a story before you ever send a message. Get an honest, practical review focused on showing who you are clearly and attracting compatible matches.
- Photo selection and first-impression feedback
- Bio and prompt review, with rewrite suggestions
- Personalized written action plan
- Delivered by email within 3 business days after receiving your materials
Private review only. Send screenshots or text, never passwords or account login details. Blur other people's names and photos.
Dating Profile Audit
$50 / one-time
A written review of one dating-app profile. No coaching call is included.
Purchase audit securely ↗After payment, email your profile screenshots to stefan@donawastandard.com. Please review the client agreement and refund policy before purchase.How it works
No games. No gimmicks. Just growth.
This isn't about memorizing pickup lines or manipulating someone into liking you. It's about becoming a better communicator and a more intentional partner.
The goal isn't just to get a date. It's to become someone who can build the right connection.
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Start with a conversation
Book a free 15-minute call. Share what you're looking for and see whether coaching is a good fit.
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Get a tailored game plan
We'll identify the patterns, skills, and decisions that matter most to your personal situation.
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Put it into practice
Use what you learn between sessions, reflect on what happens, and keep improving with structured support.
Meet your coach · Stefan Donawa
Attraction gets your foot in the door. Understanding builds the connection.
I've always been fascinated by the psychology of attraction, communication, and relationships, particularly how two people can experience the same interaction in completely different ways.
My wife and I have a running joke whenever we watch dating shows like Love Is Blind or Pop the Balloon. When we see men struggling to connect, communicate, or understand what's happening in front of them, we joke that they need to “take my class.”
Behind that joke is something I genuinely care about: understanding not just what someone says, but what they may be feeling, expecting, or trying to communicate.
My background in recruiting has strengthened my ability to ask meaningful questions, understand different perspectives, recognize compatibility, and build genuine connections. I founded The Donawa Standard to help men develop those same skills in dating and relationships.
My approach goes beyond attraction. It's about emotional awareness, confidence, communication, accountability, and the ability to consider perspectives beyond your own. Whether you're single, dating, or in a committed relationship, the goal is to help you show up with greater clarity and intention.
Understand. Communicate. Connect.
Talk with Stefan
Free introductory call · Private, one-on-one · No pressure to sign up
Frequently asked questions
Good questions deserve clear answers.
Do I need to be on camera?
No. Coaching can take place over a private phone call or over Zoom, whichever you're more comfortable with.
Is this only for single men?
No. Coaching is available both for men navigating dating and for men who want to improve communication and connection in an existing relationship.
What happens during the free call?
We'll briefly discuss your goals, your biggest challenge, and whether this style of coaching is a good fit. There's no obligation to purchase a package.
Is coaching the same as therapy?
No. This is educational and skills-based coaching, not mental health treatment, counseling, diagnosis, or psychotherapy. If you need clinical support, a licensed professional is the appropriate resource.
Will coaching guarantee me dates or a relationship?
No. Coaching helps you develop habits, skills, and perspective, but no coach can guarantee another person's interest or a specific relationship outcome.
What if I don't know which program I need?
That's what the free introductory call is for. We'll discuss your goals and whether a single session or ongoing coaching makes sense. There's no obligation to book a paid program.
Your next chapter starts here
Ready to raise your standard?
A good first conversation can give you clarity on your next step. Start with a private, no-pressure 15-minute call.
Book a free call Free consultation · 15 minutes · Google Meet
Choose a time on Calendly to schedule your private introduction call.